That's fine, and we're glad you're communicating with the rest of your crew regarding canon interpretation and character development.

The matter at hand, however, is that threads with bearing on characterization and game canon were hidden from most of the rest of the community. As we said, this kind of hiding, screening, locking, and filtering can lead to confusion within your crew and with the community as a whole, and unwanted OOC tension.

As Mary told you, we request that if a character interaction is to be considered part of "in-game canon," it must be left OOCly public.